Advice On Getting Your Boyfriend Back

Most of the advice that is so readily available on how to win back your ex-boyfriend is really not very good. When that advice includes begging him to take you back it really should not be considered as a viable option.



Some people would advise that you use games and jealousy to win him back and although this might work sometimes is it really a good idea to form a relationship based on jealousy and games? Although you might be desperate enough to say you do not really care it is important to remember that a relationship like that is not going to last. The old problems are likely to resurface and then the relationship is simply going to end up the same way - over.



Apologizing can carry a lot of weight and especially so if the break up was caused through something you did. That is not to suggest that you are to blame for the way things turned out and that he has no responsibility but chances are you must have done some things wrong. An apology cannot hurt.



Once you are able to acknowledge that you also made mistakes in the relationship the situation becomes one that allows you to make changes. If you can do this it will help you to not make the same mistakes again, causing each other heartache, should the two of you work things out and get back together.



Apologizing alone is a very beneficial thing to do even if it does not have the desired result of a reunion between the two of you. At the very least you will have learned what you should not do in your next relationship. By figuring out your mistakes and making the changes you will find this is a win-win situation.



When you do contact him to apologize, keep it short and sweet. Tell him you realize you made some mistakes and that you are truly sorry for any pain you may have caused him.



Do not resort to crying and begging and do not go into it with grand expectations of him taking you back right on the spot. It could be that he won't. He may need time to mull it all over and make up his mind about whether or not he wants to try again even with the new and more mature version of you.



If he doesn't immediately take you back, give him space. Don't contact him for a while. Let him have time to think things over and decide for himself what he wants to do. If you pester him you will most likely just make the situation worse.



During this period, don't sit by the phone and wait for his call. Live your life. Do something to make you feel really good about yourself, and making yourself look really hot can't hurt either. Spend time with friends. Do not just sit around and worry, that will make time seem to go much more slowly.



If you follow this advice on getting your boyfriend back you will stand a much better chance of being successful than if you choose to follow the advice that suggests you play games and try to make him jealous. It's up to you, good luck.



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